Cheating is a difficult thing to measure, so it is impossible to say definitively what the rate of people getting caught is. However, some estimates suggest that as few as 15-20% of cheaters are ever caught.
This is because many people don’t realize that they are being cheated on. Additionally, cheaters tend to be skilled at covering their tracks and being discreet, often by lying and being manipulative when communicating with their partners. Consequently, many partners never figure out that they are being cheated on, allowing the cheater to continue the affair for an extended period of time without detection.
Furthermore, many people are too embarrassed to tell anyone when they find out they have been betrayed, so they may never take any action against the cheater. Even if they do, they may not have sufficient evidence to prove that they were being cheated on.
These factors also mean that it can be hard to prove a partner is cheating even if you suspect they are. You need substantial evidence to convince others that the person is indeed cheating. Unless the cheater is caught in the process or leaves behind evidence of their wrongdoings, it can be difficult to determine whether they are truly cheating or not.
In conclusion, we cannot pinpoint an exact percentage of cheaters who never get caught, but studies suggest that it could be as few as 15-20%. As mentioned, cheaters can often be very skilled at avoiding detection, so it is important to trust your instincts and be mindful when up against potential infidelity. If you’re suspicious, better safe than sorry and look to a professional counselling service for help.
